Alternate Uses for a Vibrator

So, you have finally broken down and bought a vibrator, that lovely medical grade silicon silo that you keep hidden behind the tissue box in your bedroom. You probably figure you know exactly how to use it too. Would it surprise you to know that there is a myriad of ways to use a vibrator?

Elizabeth Hauptman, founder and resident sex educator of hysteriashop.com, writes, “[w]hen it comes to toys that vibrate, just remember that everyone is different. Some people love hard vibration and for some vibration is over stimulating. And remember, you don’t have to limit vibration to the obvious places.” With this in mind, you will want to consider that many of your most sensitive spots are on the outside of your body. Do not think of your vibrator solely as an internal device. The vibrator can be used as a clitoral stimulator. Place the tip of the vibrator against your clitoris. If you are worried that the vibration might be too much, try it on its lowest setting first. If that proves to be too much, try slipping a sheet between you and your vibrator. Furthermore, think of bringing your vibrator into the bedroom with your partner. A vibrator can be an amazing tool in foreplay. Tease your partner or have your partner tease you by placing the vibrator on the nipples, lips, neck, or behind the knees. Experiment and see where your different erogenous zones are.

You could also use your vibrator as a partner in a sex show for your lover. For many people, nothing turns them on more than watching their partner pleasure themselves. Don’t give it all away; take your time when you do the show. Slowly rub the vibrator on your body only occasionally sliding it inside yourself. Allow your partner to participate at times.

If your partner is a man, you can use your vibrator to help him achieve a better orgasm. Ask your lover to lie on his back and spread his legs. As you make love to him, hold the vibrator against his perineum; try increasing the speed as he grows closer to orgasm. He will have an orgasm that he will never forget! If he is open to anal play, use your vibrator to stimulate his prostate.

If you have not already purchased a vibrator, there is veritable plethora of choices out there for you. If it is your first vibrator, you may want to consider something modest at first like Lello Lilly, as it is compact, stylish, and dependable. If you want something that provides you with more choices such as varying speeds, you may want to consider using Fun Factory Cosar Mini Vibe because it is small, cute, and made of a medical grade silicone.

Remember, if you are sharing your vibrator, you should still practice safe sex.